Up until recently I worked for an institute of higher education, wore business casual to work, and conversed with high school students about their choice in colleges. Looking at me you wouldn’t guess that I had a double life, a life that few people know about, but is a large part of my life.

I spend a lot of time writing, researching, and planning how I want people to see me on here, and how thinking I will keep the lives apart for those who would be offended or just wouldn’t understand. I’ve met a lot of people through this life who I think are in the same boat, no real names, no pictures of their faces. I think it’s a shame this is how it “has” to be.

As much as I wish I could “out” myself online completely, I have a certain appreciation for how I can be who I want and not think about how it will effect things in my life, or think about what others will think. At the end of the day I like my second life, and my first life, and I applaud those to “out” themselves, as well as those who have found a way to live the life and lives they’ve always wanted.

Before we go much further I would just like to say this post is filled with shameless plugs, so enjoy!

Since I started this blog, and my online sexual identity (@thinwalls) I’ve met some amazing people online. I’ve also been really fortunate to have my lover participate online (@sexhero), which adds a cool element to both our relationship, as well as the connections we make. I’d like to dedicate this blog to some of the other hot erotic couples we have found online over the last few months, be sure you check them out, I promise you’ll be impressed (and pretty aroused).

@AshModeus and @LilithDiana (@SinCitySexBlog): This couple is one of my favorite I have found online, they are both very active in the digital world, and enjoy sharing as much as myself and @sexhero. They also live in Sin City, so they are always posting about the sexy things they get into, I’m personally very happy what they do in Vegas doesn’t have to stay there!!

@sommer_marsden: This hot mama is one of my favorite erotic writers, hands down. One of the plus sides of this lovely lady is here is just HOW much she tweets, and her sexy little encounters with her man, which she’ll tell you all about! Her Smut Girl Blog.

We Sleep Together: This is one of the first blogs I found when I started my open relationship, I loved hearing that it was possible to be married, happy, and fucking other people. This blog was also great because they are located in Minneapolis, like me, and I like sexy local talent.

@mrvericose and @andysandimas: This is my favorite porn couple, they are both tattooed, beautiful, and Mr Vericose is Minneapolis bread sexy talent.

I also just wanted to thank @adeltaofvenus for all the love. It’s great to hear someone likes what you’re posting and what you’re doing, especially when they give you the title of “favorite couple.”

Alright, I think that’s all I’ve got right now, plus that’s enough shameless plugs for one blog posting!

1. Women want to have sex 50% of the time, the other 50% they do it just to please their lover, to get them to shut up, or so they can go to bed in peace.

2. Women give sex for love, men give love for sex.

3. Women sometimes do it just because they want to.

4. Only one woman mentioned an orgasm.

It was really an interesting little piece, makes me a little bit sad for women today. I like to think we have sex because we are sex-charged and ready to party, I guess that’s a dream for tomorrow.

PS: The woman on the preview below is really hot, and I need to steal her hair.

Flickr Image by: Miss--K

Apparently buying a dildo is now a public concern, but you are encouraged to use it privately in your home in Alabama. Love Stuff, a store still selling the apparently “publicly unmoral” devices tried to challenge the State’s ruling against the sale of these items, and came up with a loss today.

“The Alabama Supreme Court on Friday upheld the state’s ban on the sale of sex toys, but Love Stuff, the Hoover store that filed the challenge, has no plans to stop selling the devices.

While people have the right to use the devices in private, the Legislature has the right to ban public distribution of those products, the court majority ruled in a 7-2 decision.

“As the 11th Circuit pithily and somewhat coarsely stated: `There is nothing `private’ or `consensual’ about the advertising and sale of a dildo,’” the majority opinion said.“

If you ask me this is a step in the wrong direction for our sexual freedoms. Not to mention the right to walk into a comfortable surrounding store, look at a wall of dildos, as for help, and find the perfect toy for you. This is a bummer for sure.

I started on my road to my sexual freedom working in an adult store where I got great pleasure out of helping people find something to help open their minds to sex. It’s not dirty, it’s not for people with no morals, it’s for you, your neighbor, your banker, even your 3rd grade teacher, and if there’s not a place in your town where you can ask questions where are you going to get your advice?

What do you think?

The best part of this was later when I was retelling this story to a lawyer friend of mine he laughed and then asked me what the big deal was. Me, being very confused as to why a lawyer would see no problems with this asked him what he meant what was the big deal? Child porn is NOT a good thing, I thought we could at least agree on that. His eyes then got wide and he said “Oh my god, so sorry, I thought you said kitty porn, my bad, no, kiddie porn is real bad, that man is stupid.”

Whew. Glad we got that straight.