So as you all know if you’re following @sexhero and I that we recently posted an ad looking for another couple to fulfill some of our fantasies. One of the big fantasies for @sexhero is having his dick sucked by more than one woman at the same time, which really only requires a threesome, not a whole couple. @sexhero has another lover he’s with sometimes, and upon first glance it seems his fantasy could be easily made a reality with the 2 lovers, the problem is my feelings about it.
I find that when I think about it my issue lies with how I will feel during the act if it ever happened. When I think about it I feel like I would much rather grab the hottest girl off the street instead of his other lover, and then I wonder why I feel this way.
When I’m thinking about threesomes and love triangles I think there are a couple ways that they could really work in a healthy way. The way I think I would prefer would be the open couple decides to bring a third piece into the equation, with an important part of the equation being that the third piece doesn’t already have a sexual tie to someone in the couple. Another way I think this could work would be three people who have no sexual ties, but then develop them together.
Having the third piece be someone with a sexual tie to only one player will automatically bring out the jealous human nature of a person. They have history. Who’s better? Who is coming home at the end of the night? Is she hotter than me? I know @sexhero never compares his two lovers, but deep down I think I would be constantly comparing.
At the end of the day, I’m more than willing to share, and to be in the sharing; I just want to be completely comfortable with the situation, and know I’m the one he’s coming home with.